Simplicity is the keynote of all true elegance.
- Coco Chanel
Did you know that, compared to introverts, extroverts wear more eye-catching outfits?
I imagine part of the reason is that introverts like to hide don’t like to draw attention to themselves.
But I also think introverts find simplicity and minimalism more peaceful and beautiful. After all, as introverts, we like a low level of stimulation.
A simple wardrobe is visually calming and less likely to over-stimulate.
Plus it makes outfit decision-making simpler, so it’s less likely to overwhelm.
I used stand in front of my closet, paralysed by choice, feeling defeated by the pressure to pull together an outfit from so many possibilities. My overflowing closet, rather than offering lots of great options, was simply a source of stress.
And it often made me late, a trail of discarded clothes in my wake as I rushed, frazzled, out the door to wherever I was going. So much for calm self-possession.
But then I discovered a way to simplify my life, and ease the pressure on my sad little overwhelmed brain, and also make my closet look more aesthetically pleasing.
Here’s what I did.
My 3CC: 3-Colour Closet
Over some months, I reduced my closet to mainly 3 colours.
I Chose 3 Neutral Colours I Could Mix And Match
I chose: black, navy, and white.
I could wear black + white, navy + white, black + navy (a favourite combination of mine – but if it’s not your taste, choose something else), all black, or all navy.
I Created A Theme
I already had some good basics in these colours and I bought several more. That gave me a solid base of boots, heels, coats, jackets, jeans, tops, sweaters, skirts, and handbags.
And, knowing I’d be wearing these staples for years, I bought classic designs, not trendy ones, and I bought the best quality I could afford.
This was my theme.
I Added Variation
For variety and a touch of personality, I bought the odd accent items, or more trend-based pieces like inexpensive tops and jeans, in colours like pink and blue.
And I was happy to pay less and not worry so much about quality, as I knew I’d just wear them for a season or two, as a highlight.
This was my variation.
With numerous colours removed, basics streamlined, and accents reduced to the odd piece, I radically decreased the number of items I needed. It was genius.
Fashion changes, but style endures
- Coco Chanel
Why Have A 3-Colour Closet?
Should you try a 3-colour closet? What are the advantages of my approach?
1. The 3CC Simplifies Shopping And Saves Money
Shopping becomes far easier.
For one thing, you have so much less in your closet, so it’s easier to remember what you have and therefore not buy what you don’t need.
Plus, you don’t crave that retail high anymore. It’s so pleasurable to enjoy your simple, uncluttered closet – and that makes you hold every potential purchase to a higher standard. I buy more expensive items now, but overall I spend far less since I’ve switched to my 3CC.
Decision making when you shop is a cinch as well. Doesn’t come in one of my colours? Hmm I’ll leave it. Easy.
2. The 3CC Simplifies Dressing And Assembling Outfits
Because my closet is mostly in these three colours, everything literally goes with everything else.
Here’s my process.
- I usually pick one thing I feel like wearing – a pair of jeans, a particular top, a pair of over-the-knee boots.
- If it’s a strong piece – like leather pants or OTK boots, I chose something simple to go with it. If it’s very plain – say classic skinny jeans in indigo – then I might opt for a top with some kind of detailing. One fancy item per outfit is my limit.
- All my jackets, coats, footwear, and handbags are in my three neutral hues, so they all go with everything. I simply make a choice based on day versus evening, weather, and formality of the occasion.
From one single decision, my outfits pretty well assemble themselves.
3. The 3CC Saves Time
I go shopping and wander around stores far less than I used to.
When I do shop I’m more focussed and efficient because my parameters are so clear.
I spend much less time getting dressed.
I rarely spend time putting away a maelstrom of discarded clothes.
4. The 3CC Looks Beautiful
A closet of three neutral colours just looks lovely. Especially when the clothes are beautifully spaced instead of smooshed together in a horrible overcrowded clump.
Having matching hangers (no wires, ew) helps, too.
Women think of all colours except the absence of colour. I have said that black has it all. White too. Their beauty is absolute. It is the perfect harmony.
- Coco Chanel
How To Transition To A 3-Colour Closet
If you love having a radically different look every day, then this approach is not for you.
If you like your style to be about the clothes rather than the person, then this approach is not for you.
If you like to have the latest trend in fashion, this this approach is not for you.
If your idea of introvert style is a heavy goth look best described as Back Away Slowly, then this approach is definitely not for you.
But if you find classic minimalism is more your thing, then my 3CC could be perfect for you.
Don’t worry if your current closet contains more shades than a sunglasses factory. Here’s how to make the transition.
- Get rid of all your closet dross. If you haven’t worn it in a year, if it doesn’t fit, if it doesn’t look good or feel good or make you happy – donate it or toss it out. Regardless of colour! Out damn skort, to paraphrase Lady Macbeth.
- Of your remaining items, see if there’s a theme in your colours. If you already have mainly chocolate, cream, and camel; or black, white, and taupe; or coral, cream, and beige, then you can make this work beautifully. If you have an overabundance of chartreuse then I think we’re both out of our depths.
- If there’s no existing colour theme, then peruse fashion magazines or fashion store windows to see what colours you like. Look for colours that work well together and appeal to you and pick your three.
- Add to your closet over time, buying classic styles in your neutral colour choices. Let this happen organically, in line with your budget and wardrobe needs.
- Buy the odd accent item in a non-neutral colour – but make this an occasional purchase only.
- Continue to prune your closet – every time you make a new purchase, look for at least one thing to donate. Keep moving toward those classic pieces in your signature colours, with a few fun accents each season.
Over time you’ll create a wardrobe of classic, neutral pieces that all go together, are a pleasure to wear, and look lovely in your closet.
Now comes the true introvert challenge: making plans so you can get dressed and actually leave the house in your simple but beautiful outfit!
I did this same thing last year. I chose black, gray, and white. I’ve never been happier with my wardrobe. Everything goes together and the simplicity is soothing.
Oh yeah Monica – black, gray, and white are so lovely together! Always an elegant combination.
Oh wow, those are the 3 colors I chose as well. I’m really looking forward to the change in my wardrobe.
Brilliant!
I could easily get away with this: black, red, and … hmmm … I’ll have to think about that! But I do this when I travel–limit my wardrobe to 3 colors so that I can pack less and mix-n-match, and hopefully not have to do laundry! Thanks for the great tips!
My pleasure, Stephanie! BTW I think black and red would go beautifully with cream, grey, or camel. Have fun!
Maybe try gray. That goes well. I know cuz I love red.
🙂
Wow! It’s like you peeked in my closet!
But I was vewy vewy quiet, Carly. 🙂
Your post is great!! I have been overthinking the process (What?? Surely not!!!) for months. And you can translate that to say…….I was too overwhelmed to make a decision about the rest of the STUFF in my closet. Now I can fell really good wearing the few beautiful colors & styles that I enjoy!! Thanks so much!!
My pleasure, Carolyn! I suspect many introverts are prone to overthinking, which is why these blanket life simplifiers are so great for us. 🙂
I love this idea so much and am so inspired to get started! Thank you for your wonderful articles!!❤️
Thanks for your lovely comment Lynmarie! I’m so glad you’re inspired – you will love this!!
Pleasure to read and great tips. I definitely agree that it makes life so simple.
Thanks Trish!
I have been researching capsule wardrobes but have found it to be overwhelming. Your article clears it up and makes perfect sense. My 3 colors popped into my head immediately. I can’t wait to get started. Thank you!
Cindy I like the theory of capsule wardrobes, but like you, find them too hard to navigate in practical terms.
You’re going to LOVE the 3-colour approach – have fun!
I agree!
Black and gray with shades of pink and rose are my colors. I buy them instinctively and know I look best in these colors. The problem arises when I see a “bargain” top in a style I like but in a color I don’t wear and buy it anyway. I need to go through my closet and release those odd items and refocus on my basics. Thanks for this clear reminder!
Barb, I like your colour choices! And yes, stick to your colours. Those bargains are rarely a good idea.
Barb, I love the colors you chose. My wardrobe has a large amount of Black when I decided to minimalize my clothes. I knew I had an obsession with white tops but until I pulled all my clothing out I had no idea. So for this winter I decided my colors would be black and white. Michele and you have inspired me to chose an additional color which I believe will be gray as well. My accent colors are going to be fuchsia and/or emerald green. I’m so excited because I’m beginning to find my own “style” and a signature look.
Love it Nette! It feels so great to have your own style – AND enjoy the benefits of a minimal approach.
I recognized that I am an introvert several years ago. Unfortunately, I felt BAD about it. I didn’t feel like I truly “fit in” anywhere. My home is my haven. I, to, began transitioning to a minimalistic life. The comment that you made spoke to my soul: “…many introverts are prone to overthinking. “. That is me, to a T. I call it “racing brain”. Having less stuff in my home and in my life has made a significant contribution to my new, calmer life. Thanks for all if your thoughts and insight. I will definitely keep following.
Thanks you for sharing your experience, Dianne. It’s sad how much pain we introverts go through, feeling like there’s something wrong with us – for no good reason. My story is here, if you’re interested. And these articles will help you feel a lot better about your introversion.
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This is a great idea. Many thanks. I already have alot of blue and grey so I’ll stick with those (maybe adding black for practicality) and think about donating the rest. This also means that I can donate alot of shoes that I keep just in case I need them to wear occasionally with an outfit that is not in my favourite colours…which rarely happens.
Sharon, I love blue and grey and black! Yay for donating just-in-case shoes and making room for something better. 🙂
I just found your blog thru Joshua Becker. Wow, you really have hit the nail on the head. Everything I’ve been doing starting with minimalism, a 3 color wardrobe, less everything because I don’t like over stimulation. I realized many years ago that I’m an introvert. I like my own company and don’t need crowds, shopping, lots of people or things around me. But honestly, I didn’t make the connection until I read your latest blog. It’s brilliant. I’m so thrilled at these thoughts. It’s like the pieces of a giant jig saw puzzle fell into place. I don’t like overstimulation, whether it’s too much stuff around me or other people’s noise.
Thank you for this and to have all this just ‘fit’ really is something else.
Christina, you’ve expressed so well how it feels to realize you’re an introvert – like a giant puzzle falling into place. I’m so grateful to Joshua for the people he has sent here – they seem to be very much the people I’ve been writing for. Welcome!
My 3 colours are navy, grey and a tiny bit of a deep rich red – but I find that to add a little ‘sparkle’ it’s really good to have a selection of scarves/pashminas in really vibrant complementary colours and/or patterns (my wardrobe clothes are plain, not patterned). That’s where I get really creative – a bright orange scarf can liven up blue, a red patterned pashmina can jazz up a grey shirt. The combinations are endless!
This approach is fabulous! I love the entire blog, every little thing, and I’m quite often lost in hyper focus as I travel to all the other blogs that you mention, such as Grammaphobia. (LOVE THAT ONE)
Everyone’s comments sound just like me, and any of them are classic Adult ADD or ADHD, which I have and embrace. Most of us are truly introverts, deep over thinkers with high speed motor brain, so anything that keeps me from standing in my closet, frozen from overwhelm, is extremely appreciated!
Thanks so much for your lovely comment, Nancy! We are a weird and wonderful tribe and, and you say, anything that stops us overthinking gives us more mindspace to enjoy all our introvert pleasures. 🙂
My two best girlfriends (both extroverts) make fun of my,almost all black wardrobe, constantly 😂
Lol Stacy I guess we shouldn’t be surprised!
I have said for years that I wish that I could just have two weeks of the same comfortable outfits kind of like a uniform because I hate thinking about what to wear. This is a great idea that comes close to that ideal. Thanks for the post!
My pleasure, Tracy! I hope you love it. 🙂
I love this concept but my INFPPPPP!!! self is gasping for air at the thought of being restricted to only 3 main colours, all year round! So I’ve expanded on your concept a little 😉.
I’ve chosen 3 neutrals and 3 accent colours for each season. I feel much less restricted, but still feel like there will be order, within wider parameters. I’m looking forward to building my wardrobe!
That sounds like a really smart adjustment, Heather! Still very simple but with enough room to play. 🙂
Hi Michelle! I’m new to your blog and, as an introvert, am enjoying your comments! The year I graduated from high school, my mum took me shopping to buy “a few wardrobe classics” from which I could accent-coloured tops & accessories as the seasons & trends changed. I have kept this up for 40 years. It definitely helps the daily decision of what to wear, thus one coping habit to lead a calmer life! In the early days I didn’t wear black, so a wardrobe choice for a funeral was challenging. Soon, I learned to always have a black skirt & dark top in my closet for that rare occasion, again, thwarting an anxious moment. 😄
Thanks, Barbara! 🙂
What a great start your mum gave you. And it sounds like you’ve really made it work for you!
I’m NOT an introvert but I love this – the calming simplicity is also good for those
Of us who like lots of people and activity. I’m for simple dressing as it leaves room in my head
And life formthe other stuff. Me – black, grey, denim. Accent colours apple green and teal blue
Funny thing, I do this already, but more out of desperation than anything else. My basics are black, blue and brown with pinks, purples and turquoise adding the splash. It was all unconscious, knowing the absence of stress when dressing was an excellent feel. You defined and instructed well.
Thanks for the feedback Pam – and I love your colors! A very happy palette.
This is such a great idea–I imagine this will make life so much easier as an introvert toddler mom who works full time and it is so hard to get out of the house feeling good about how I look. I can’t wait to implement!
Hey Erin – I’d love to know how it goes for you. If you can, pop back and let me know some time! 🙂
When I first read about the concept of a capsule wardrobe, I was impressed.
Not only because of the time and money saved, but also because I have problems putting outfits together.
I assumed that black would be a good neutral for everyone, including me. However, I was wrong.
I found that wearing black made my depression much worse. Whenever I caught sight of my reflection, I cringed. It didn’t help that I’ve decided to go back (after more than 30 years) to my natural hair colour.
But I love all shades of blue, so I now have two neutrals: navy and tan. I might add white to them
Because my natural hair colour is now a dull shade of mouse (but much, much healthier) I’m going to embrace all shades of blue as my accent colour, maybe with some pink as well.
I especially love turquoise and sky blue.
Thank you for the very helpful advice in this post.
Now I’ve worked out my colours, I need to work on the number of items in my wardrobe! 🙂
Kay
Kay, I think it’s wise of you to recognise the impact of color on your mood. Your colors sound lovely, and I think navy might be my all-time favorite (and most flattering) color. Enjoy!
I love this. I reduced my wardrobe down to six core colors and did the same for my children and husband several years ago. It never occurred to me to go with less. But I love it. I usually end up wearing only 3 -black, brown, and something denim. Keeping all 4 of my young girls’ colors the same has been really helpful for hand me downs as well. They always match because they’re always in the same colors.
Verity, what a great idea to apply this to your family’s wardrobe! Makes your life simpler and also teaches your children some cool self presentation skills.
I did a combo KondoMari/Project 333 capsule wardrobe make over on my closet last year, keeping only items that actually fit, that I wore often and felt good in. I ended up with mostly black, grey and navy with a few jewel tone pieces that work equally well with black, grey or navy. My closet looks much flasher than it actually is and dressing is a breeze. Shopping for any new pieces I need is also simpler by keeping within those colours, which I appreciate as I despise shopping.
It’s such a great solution, isn’t is Melanie!
My neutrals are navy and grey. I had my colours analysed a few years ago and it made such a difference for me. My wardrobe now contains less, but more gets worn. My clothes are now better quality, and seasonally I add a couple of good quality tops in contrasting colours from Kettlewell. Love your article, it will inspire others to find their ideal solution.
Thanks Heather! 🙂
Awesome! I love your tricolour, mine is grey, navy and beige since last year. It used to be black, white and three shades between orange & pink for years.
I love this. I always struggled with the classic black cream and navy. But I sorted my closet and found that my neutrals are grey blush pink and indigo. White, greend and aubergine for accents. Browns in fall and winter. I feel like my closet reflects ne instead of owns me!
Hello! I’ve only just now come across this article. I love the idea, but I am not sure how I can make it work since I am a lover of prints. My wardrobe is about 95% prints and 5% solids (if that). Well, my pants are solid colors but my tops are a plethora of prints. Everything from stripes to florals to geometric to tribal…. Should I try a three color palette and try to find prints where the *main* (or dominant) color running through is one of the “three” colors? Any suggestions?
I love this site. Until I found this, I thought I was the only introvert in my high school. Now I know what to look for! More than that, this post in particular helps a ton. My mom now understands why I hate shopping with her. She only wants to buy the latest fashions. Now she knows why I like simpler clothes.
Would green black and denim work(denim for pants)?
I think it sounds lovely but i think i would add some white.
I’ve been searching capsule wardrobe advice for years and this is the first article that made sense! I now deleated all the other capsule info off of my Pinterest, why keep it if it’s not working? I sorted my closet and found my 3 colors are black, blue and beige (I already knew my accent colors). I feel I can stop searching now, thank you!
Love this post! I’ve found a lot of success with Project 333 by focusing on neutrals and the odd accent color. It makes life so much easier in the morning when I’m getting ready 🙂
Green black and blue…..Green with black, blue with black, blue with green. All in shirts, cuz I only have denim jeans. And all my shoes are black and/or blue. Well, I have the perfect closet, just needed to get rid of all the extras. Thanks for the reminder!
I love color! so, i find the neutral wardrobe a little difficult for me. But, if I just have your basic neutral skirt/pants, and have 3 of my best colors that look good on me should be fine! that is also easy…
I absolutely love your post and this idea in general! Thank you for bringing to light the simplicity of a 3-color neutral palette! I find that very few colors look flattering on me. Pretty much only black and navy (and medium denim). I currently have the same colors as you in my closet. My only issue is that white does not seem to look good around my face, so I think I will experiment with a different neutral to replace white so that I have a few more choices. I so appreciate your post and your ideas, and I really do believe this method makes so much sense and is very freeing! 🙂
I stumbled across your blog post while researching French minimalist wadrobes. It never dawned on me the connection between my introverted personality and clothing style. I love the idea of the simplified French wardrobe but beiges and blacks are awful color combinations for my light skin and blonde hair. Since I do not look good in black, I use navy. My three colors: navy, white, dusty/french blue. Thanks for sharing your insights.
I’m a introvert to and I just choose to dress the way I want to dress. I use it as a way to meet people and work on my people skills if they approach me.
The Simplicity is great. It makes doing laundry so easy. My wardrobe is mostly black, white, gray, red, pink, and purple.
This article is inspiring and very well written. It gives me food for thought.
Although I am an introvert, I have always done the opposite. I dress in very fashion-forward edgy styles, with bold colours and dramatic detailing. The truth is, my wardrobe is my social armour. I can relax and not have to make small talk, because my peacocking makes the statement for me.
It’s a method that has worked for me thus far. People at social gatherings tend to perceive me as very confident and outgoing – even though I barely say a word to them. My trick is to walk into every room like I own it. I hold my head high. I walk down the middle of the room. Basically, I full-on fake being an extrovert.
Then, once I’ve made my presence known, I keep walking until I find a comfy sofa in the background. Ahhhh! Mission accomplished. Now that I’ve successfully made my entrance I can quietly observe the rest of the people from a safe distance…without looking like a timid mouse in the corner. After all, it’s impossible to appear shy when you’re wearing a bright red Ralph Lauren band leader jacket with gold detailing and epaulets.
Smoke-screen fashion. It’s a thing.
Genius! This is me too a T! I’ve been having closet panic attacks of indecision for years. I’ve always felt I needed to include other colors I really didn’t like just for the sake of the darn color wheel. My heart always gravitates towards black white and red. For years I’ve been unknowingly picking these colors. Doing a total overhaul this week on everything in my wardrobe!!! Ty ty ty for helping a lost frustrated introvert! Love, @ahotms